Living A Congruent Chiropractic Lifestyle
We have been given a beautiful philosophy through chiropractic. It reminds me of classical music, in that the deeper you go in learning and understanding it, the more meaning can be gained.I occasionally meet chiropractors or CAs who do the ‘double-dance’. This is the situation where what they speak about in relation to the philosophy of chiropractic is different than what they actually do in their own lives or practices. The problem with this situation is it can lead to confusion as a result of living with incongruence. It is the ‘do as I say, not do as I do’ situation.
These are important and fundamental questions. They determine whether you live your philosophy, or if you just speak it.
We know words are important, very important. What we say and also what we don't say is critical to our relationships and our world view. BJ Palmer said, ‘you never know how far reaching what you think, say and do will affect the lives of millions tomorrow’.
Dr. Tez Molloy, a communications expert, built on BJ’s quote and took it further. He said, ‘You never know how far reaching what you don't think, don't say, and don't do will affect the lives of millions tomorrow’. It is a great concept to ponder. How many times have we been in situations inside (or outside) the office where we think of an opportunity to say something about chiropractic, and yet we fail to do so? It could be as simple as asking a person in a social situation ‘so, have you ever tried chiropractic?’
In the office, there are numerous ways to invite a patient to bring in their spouse/partner or children to get their spine checked. If your paradigm of chiropractic is a treatment only model, then inviting people in would depend on them having an ache or pain that chiropractic may help with. Conversely, if your model is a healthy spine equals better performance and function, then everyone is a potential patient. My point is how many times have we missed an opportunity to ask, because we don't want to be rejected? The reality is that they are not rejecting you; they are simply deciding not to pursue chiropractic at this time.
Your Family's Care
An interesting area of congruence/incongruence relates to how we take care of our own family. Are they thoroughly examined and X-rayed (if required)? Is it the same standard of care for your loved ones as it is for your (paying) patients?
The Third Party Patient
Many chiropractors take care of people of whom their care is paid for by a third party. Interestingly in the US, a 2014 Survey conducted by the Chiropractic Economics magazine found that 18% of DCs were practicing a 100% cash office. No third party payers! This number was up from the year before. And so the financial congruence question is; do all your patients hear the same chiropractic message, or is it different between family and friends; or cash or third party paying patients?
We can all think back to our college days and the inconsistencies or incongruence that occurred during campus life. Some of these have become horror stories or folklore shared at seminars. When I was president of a chiropractic college in the U.S we developed a number of strategic initiatives including defining what our values were. One of these related to having a congruent experience on campus. This included:
The Take Home.
So what's the point? Living and practicing congruence with your chiropractic values and philosophy, while not always easy, can be very liberating and makes life and your practice easier to navigate.